Thursday, January 25, 2018

The Work Behind the Work

Currently, I am training for a half-marathon race.  I don’t have a particular race in mind, but I am training for one.  As someone who has run marathons before, a half-marathon is daunting, but I also know that it is doable for my current health goals.

When I was asked what race I was going to do on Instagram, I simply said that my goal was to do the training.  The ability to finish a marathon is an accomplishment, and when I used to do it, people would say, “That is so impressive that you finished a marathon!”  My response was that the marathon was easy, it was the training that was hard.  If you properly train, the dedication and consistency to work hard when you don’t want to can be mind-numbing. Excellence is created from a formula; consistency plus high-quality effort over time.

That thing you see someone else doing is just a glimpse into that day, not the hours behind it to get to that point.

I have always loved this quote:

I don’t know if “20 years” is accurate, but that person you see in the gym that is incredibly fit didn’t just show up that way. An effort was not only given to doing things that were hard but also in not doing things that were hard.  This goes for many other things in our life as well.

If you see someone and you admire what they are doing, ask them what it took to get there.  Then ask yourself if you are willing to do the work to get where you want to be when no one is watching.

The work behind the work is often the hardest part of success.

Source: George Couros



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The Work Behind the Work

Currently, I am training for a half-marathon race.  I don’t have a particular race in mind, but I am training for one.  As someone who has run marathons before, a half-marathon is daunting, but I also know that it is doable for my current health goals.

When I was asked what race I was going to do on Instagram, I simply said that my goal was to do the training.  The ability to finish a marathon is an accomplishment, and when I used to do it, people would say, “That is so impressive that you finished a marathon!”  My response was that the marathon was easy, it was the training that was hard.  If you properly train, the dedication and consistency to work hard when you don’t want to can be mind-numbing. Excellence is created from a formula; consistency plus high-quality effort over time.

That thing you see someone else doing is just a glimpse into that day, not the hours behind it to get to that point.

I have always loved this quote:

I don’t know if “20 years” is accurate, but that person you see in the gym that is incredibly fit didn’t just show up that way. An effort was not only given to doing things that were hard but also in not doing things that were hard.  This goes for many other things in our life as well.

If you see someone and you admire what they are doing, ask them what it took to get there.  Then ask yourself if you are willing to do the work to get where you want to be when no one is watching.

The work behind the work is often the hardest part of success.



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Chelsea Mews by London Meridian Properties in North Vancouver

Chelsea Mews is located in a prime area of North Vancouver with views of Lions Gate Bridge. Situated on a quiet cul-de-sac, it’s just steps away from public transportation and Norgate Park, plus our homeowners will only be 10 minutes from transit connections that will whisk them to the heart of downtown Vancouver and Stanley Park. Chelsea Mews is also conveniently situated within a 10-minute radius of many attractions and neighborhood amenities such as Park Royal Shopping Centre, Capilano Mall, Grouse Mountain ski resort, Save-on-Foods, and Steve Nash Fitness World.

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Car Finance: What Can You Afford?

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Before making any major purchase, it is wise to create a budget. Buying a car is no exception. While you may dream of driving off the lot in a fancy ride, you must first ask yourself whether or not you can afford it.

Here are some things to consider that will help you determine what you can afford:

Getting an auto loan

If you’re budgeting for a car this likely means you will be using an auto loan to finance your new vehicle. In this case, you will need to consider your monthly payments. To know how much you will be able to spend on your car payments you will have to consider your other recurring expenses. How much do you spend each month on things such as rent or mortgage, groceries, utilities and other loans? These are obligations that you must meet each month; however, you might be able to adjust your spending on things such as entertainment and eating out, so that you will have more to dedicate to your monthly car payments. Still, your car payments should not exceed 10% of your earnings.

Total cost to own

You should also remember that the sticker price is not the only cost to consider in the equation to determine the affordability of a car. When purchasing a vehicle, you must also consider the down payment, tax, other fees and add-ons. After you have procured the vehicle, other expenses will include gas, upkeep, car insurance and yearly registration fees.

Your down payment

Regardless of the car you plan to buy, you should be able to make at least a 20% down payment. Why is this important? This will enable you to get a much better interest rate and will result in fewer loan payments over time. Also, if you ever need to refinance your vehicle or sell it, the process will be much easier as you own a greater share of the vehicle the more you contribute to your down payment.

The length of your car finance loan

It should be your aim to pay off your car finance loan within 4 years. The longer you stretch your payments, the higher your interest rate will be. You should also consider the matter of depreciation. It is said that a car loses approximately 10% of its value once you drive it off the lot. In its first year of ownership, it is estimated that the car’s value will decrease by another 10%. This depreciation will continue with each year that passes. After 4 years there will be a significant level of depreciation and you do not want to still be paying for your car finance as its value continues to decrease.

When you make the decision to a purchase a car, there is a lot to consider before you take an auto loan. However, if you remember the 20/4/10 rule —20% down, 4 years to pay, no more than 10% of your monthly earnings—then you should be able to buy a car without putting yourself in debt.

If you are looking to buy a car in British Columbia and you still have questions about just how much you can afford, come in and speak with a member of the Credit Now team and let us help you figure it out.

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The guilt trip of not doing enough in our schools

Working in education is a lifelong passion for many teachers. Even when teachers are sick, they does-up on vitamins, cold and flu medication, just to make it into school because they cannot bear the thought of another teacher, substitute or other, messing up their class.

As teachers we do have an illness when it comes to education, it is called “The kids need me” syndrome. If we do not make that extra effort, then who will? There are teachers who are up late at night working on new lesson ideas, preparing feedback for students, or responding to emails from parents. There is undoubtedly huge commitment in our profession to getting the job done and making our schools better for our students.

“Oh, but teachers get great holidays,” say some. To some extent yes, this can be a perk, when a teacher is able to have holidays that may be more than what the average person gets. Yet at the same time, more work keeps getting crammed into that 10 week term window. So much so, that when the time comes for that holiday, the first week is spent getting over some illness as our immune system comes crashing down.

Do teachers work harder than in other professions? Not necessarily, and it depends on who you are. There are teachers that do the bare minimum and then there are others that give their life and soul to the profession. So much time and effort do some teachers give that they may be staying late after school instead of seeing their own child’s swimming practice, or having dinner with their family.

Being involved in schools is a calling; an opportunity for us to make a significant difference to the lives of young people and through it, hopefully, to make a better world. Yet the downside of being involved in this wonderful profession is that if we are not seen to be doing enough, then we can feel guilty and push ourselves even harder to make that difference. Some teachers go to the point of pushing themselves so hard to the point of burnt out, where they become little use to anyone. We need to stop this from happening.

First and foremost, if we do not look after ourselves, we cannot help others to the very best of our ability. By others, this means students, parents, colleagues, friends and family. It is like the oxygen mask concept on an aeroplane. “Fit your own mask first before helping others.” Yet being involved in education, a service where we are expected to give of ourselves to others, it can feel a bit selfish. We then want to spend that extra time engaged in meaningful work to support others. We are torn between serving others and looking after ourselves and our families.

School leaders have a moral obligation to support their teachers and support staff get the balance right between working hard and staying healthy. Teachers cannot always make the right decision for themselves when the pressure becomes so much that they feel they have to get the job done right here and right now. Yet at the same time, teachers cannot always expect school leaders to make a daunting workload go away either.

We are all adults in this together, responsible for looking out for each other and ensuring we maintain a sense of balance. It is OK to take one or two days off to get back to full health, or have family time. In doing so, we have to make sure that we are as productive as we can possibly be in the time we have to commit to our students.

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Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Hug Chickenpenny: the Panegyric of an Anomalous Child by S. Craig Zahler

Well, this novel made me ugly cry.  I'm not going to lie.  Sob, actually.  I was asked to review this novel, which was recently snagged by the Jim Henson Company to create what I imagine will be a visually incredible, moving film.  It was not at all something I would have picked up and read otherwise, but oh, I am so glad I did; Hug Chickenpenny is a character I won't soon forget. 

First of all, "panegyric" means a public text in praise of someone.  You could say an ode, a tribute, or a story. "Anomalous" is defined as something that is out of the ordinary, not normal; something unexpected.  Hug Chickenpenny is one unusual little boy.  His mother dies at birth--which happens in a strange, abandoned house late one night. Hug is sent to an orphanage, and is physically odd, and frightening to the other children.  Two different eyes-one red, one brown, that do not blink together; slits for a nose, a flipper for one arm, and a badly bent leg.  A head that is large and bumpy, with white hair.  He shrieks so loudly that it pierces the ears.  No one cares for him except for Georgie, a caring man at the orphanage. Along comes a doctor, who adopts him and adds him to his collection of odd, anomalous creatures.  Poor Hug.  He's only seven, and even though he's treated badly by most everyone who meets him, he radiates kindness and innocence.  He always tries to be helpful and see the good in everyone.  He doesn't understand that he is different.  He dreams of building a rocket ship and flying out to space, to return to a home he only knows from his dreams.  

Hug's luck shifts eventually, and he finds a home and family that love him and don't see his physical differences, but accept him as he is, and he blossoms.  Until tragedy happens, and Hug is once again spun out into a cruel world.  Yet he still retains his big heart, and his belief that everyone can be good even if all they've shown him is cruelty.  I seriously did sob at the end of this novel.  I can say this is one memorable story that will stick with me for a very long time.  Read Hug's story, and I bet your heart will grow just a bit bigger. 

Here's some information about S. Craig Zahler, the author of this wonderful tale:

About the Author:
S. Craig Zahler is an award-winning screenwriter, director, novelist, cinematographer, and musician. He wrote, directed, and co-composed the score for the breakout 2015 film Bone Tomahawk, starring Kurt Russell, which was nominated for two Independent Spirit Awards. Zahler most recently wrote and directed Brawl in Cell Block 99, starring Vince Vaughn, Jennifer Carpenter, and Don Johnson, which premiered at the Venice Film Festival and went on to critical acclaim from screenings at Toronto, Fantastic Fest, and many more festivals before being released in October 2017; and Mel Gibson and Vince Vaughn star in Zahler’s gritty cop thriller Dragged Across Concrete, currently in post-production. 

Zahler is also the author of several novels, including A Congregation of Jackals, nominated for both the Peacemaker and the Spur Awards; Mean Business on North Ganson Street; and Wraiths of the Broken Land, which 20th Century Fox recently announced will be a major motion picture with Ridley Scott directing. In addition to writing and directing, Zahler has founded and played in several bands, including Binary Reptile, a synthesizer project that provided the music for the audio drama movie, The Narrow Caves. He lives in New York City.

And some reviews from the press:

Advance Praise:
"S. Craig Zahler is certain to become one of the great imaginers of our time."
―Clive Barker

“Complex, well-drawn characterizations, compelling imagery and a well-ordered story arc complete a trifecta of literary accomplishment here that is achieved by few elsewhere. Five-plus stars to Hug Chickenpenny.”
―Publishers Daily Reviews

"An exceptional, original, and inherently fascinating read from beginning to end."
―Midwest Book Review

“At its heart, this is a book about looking beyond the exterior and being patient with those who fail to do so, and the way in which the author lays that path before his audience is captivating and unforgettable.”
―U.S. Review of Books

"Hug Chickenpenny is much more than literature. It's an experience."
—HorrorTalk

"I was intrigued (and still am) by the cover art on this new book. Detailed and beautiful, the
cover is a good segue into what to expect from the story. (In case you’re wondering, the little boy looking off into the distance is Mr. Hug Chickenpenny. What is he looking at, I wonder?) Learn about Hug’s life by venturing into this aptly written wonder of fiction. You won’t regret it. "
―Michael Rodriguez, Harvard Book Store Staff Pick

“Like Tim Burton’s Edward Scissorhands and David Lynch’s Elephant Man, the appeal of Zahler’s hero is his extreme duality: a monstrous form encapsulating a sweet, innocent soul…a daring, evocative work that defies categorization.”
―Dallas Observer

“Hug Chickenpenny is reminiscent of A Series of Unfortunate Events, not in plot, but in tone. It takes place in its own time, and blends archaic terms with modern conveniences. It’s definitely not steampunk, but I imagined that it took place in the 1970s with Dickensian flavors scattered about — best of all it’s written well. Hug Chickenpenny is different from anything I’ve read — it’s certainly different from Zahler’s other work — and as someone who sees a lot of the same tropes consistently, Hug Chickenpenny is refreshing.”
―Diabolique Magazine


Well.  All I can say is grab a copy of this book, and read it.  You will love it.  Certainly appropriate for teens and tweens.  

Rating:  6/6!  Yes, a 6/6 for a novel about kindness always winning out over ugliness, hope, love, and looking beyond the physical.  Being different is what makes us all special.  

Available in paperback.

A big thank you to Wunderkind PR for providing a review copy of this novel.  It has a permanent place on my bookshelf.  
  

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Do You Want Your Child to Grow or Do You Want Him to Be Comfortable?


We have a basic speech class that we require just about every student in our school to take. It's not a graduation requirement, but our counselors include this semester class for all sophomores unless there is some compelling reason they just can't fit it into their schedule.

We expect all students to take it because we know how important it is to develop good oral communication skills. The class includes public speaking components, but it also provides practice with interpersonal skills and interviewing. It's essential stuff for life.

You've probably heard it stated that people fear public speaking more than death, in surveys at least. So inevitably, there are students who don't want to take this course. And from time to time, I will here from parents who don't want their child to take the course.

Jerry Seinfeld found the humor in just how much most people dread public speaking:

“According to most studies, people's number one fear is public speaking. Number two is death. Death is number two. Does that sound right? This means to the average person, if you go to a funeral, you're better off in the casket than doing the eulogy."
I get it. Public speaking can produce anxiety, dread, discomfort, apprehension, and more.

As a result, I always listen carefully to parent concerns and try to show empathy and understanding. It can be scary to stand in front of your peers and speak.

But I'm not easily persuaded to change our expectations about students taking this class. It's an excellent opportunity for students to grow and develop all sorts of valuable skills.


So, my dialogue with parents asks them to consider what's best for their child:

"I understand this class makes lots of students uncomfortable. But that can be a good thing because growth requires stepping out of comfort zones. We don't grow stronger by doing what's easy. When we face something hard and push through it, that makes us stronger. So I'm always asking myself as a parent, do I want my kids to be comfortable or do I want them to grow? And the answer, of course, is I want them to grow. Isn't that what all parents want for their kids?"

And of course, parents do want their kids to grow, but for some reason, we've developed a desire in our culture to protect our kids from anything that is uncomfortable or difficult. It's very common to see parents protecting their kids from anything that produces discomfort.

But we can't have it both ways.

Growth demands stretching the limits and trying something new. Growth demands risk of failure. It requires some discomfort. So we need to invite kids to embrace the discomfort. And we need to invite parents to encourage discomfort and not rescue kids from the struggle.

So I will continue to share with everyone in our school my belief that we have to get uncomfortable if we want to be all we can be. We have to push past our fear and go for it.

Do you have tips for helping parents understand that it's not a bad thing for their child to be uncomfortable? That productive struggle is a good thing? I want to hear from you. Leave a comment below or respond on Facebook or Twitter. 

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