Tuesday, November 6, 2018

Rethinking Balance

“Balance is stupid.”
George Couros, primarily from 2007-2017

That was me.

Maybe I didn’t say it exactly that way, but I was thinking it.

For me, to be successful, you had to live a reasonably unbalanced life.  I listened to the Grant Cardone’s of the world who focused on the importance of being “obsessed” to become successful at what you do.

Eventually that “obsession,” no matter how passionate I became led to struggles with physical and mental health.  I didn’t see myself when I looked in the mirror anymore. I was always tired and couldn’t do things that I used to be able to do.

I started to rethink the notion of “balance.” I started focusing more on my health, spent less time on social media, cut out as much negativity as possible and concentrate on people that would lift me up. I Did more to be present when I was home. I do things for fun that are solely to have fun. I said “no” to others more and said “yes” to myself.

I didn’t snicker when people would say, “It’s all about balance.”

Part of the way I see balance now is that it leads to better work and a better life. I don’t necessarily have to sacrifice one for the other. I have more energy. I’m more grateful. I am more focused where I am when I am there. I am more empathetic. I still have room to grow, but I look at the word “balance” differently.  I like this quote:

I don’t know if I am right but I know thinking differently about the word is right for me at this time.  This space is to show learning and growth, and here my shift right now is that I used to think “A” and now I think “B.” If I am going to preach the importance of embracing “change and growth” I should be able to share my development in both of these areas.

I still struggle with the world balance and maybe I am not good at doing it compared to others, but I think differently about the meaning and its importance.

Revised quote :

“Balance isn’t such a bad thing.”
George Couros, 2018 – Until I change my mind again.



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Best Log Home Builders in the United States (Reviews/Ratings)

Are you considering building a log home? Do you feel slightly lost on where to start or the process involved? It’s important that you do your research and find a company that can provide you with the type of customer service and specific expertise that you need and deserves to build your home.

While we build beautiful custom timber frame homes we understand that you may want to explore other options, styles and price variations before you make your final decision. We know that building a forever home you’ll love is no easy and simple task. In our line of work, more often then not we get people asking us to refer other companies that we might recommend so they can do a bit of research themselves. It’s imperative to do your research and know exactly what you want before beginning any sort of building process.

We understand that log homes might not be the first choice for new buyers, but these rustic and cozy dwellings are definitely in high demand. Today’s log homes are spacious and modern and don’t resemble what most people picture when they think ‘log homes’. However, most people aren’t aware that buying a home with this stature and appeal requires far different research then your typical home.

Here is our list of some of the best log home builders in the United States:

Best Log Home Builders in the United States (Reviews/Ratings)

Highlands Log Structures

Located in Abingdon, VA is a full-service log home manufacturer and supplier that serves every state in the USA. Homes are mainly built with eastern white pine. Customers can purchase dry-in packages or choose to have the company build the home on site. The company also makes and sells separate building components, such as doors, windows, posts and beams, log building accents, faux stone, mantels, log stairs, and laurel railings.

Katahdin Cedar Log Homes

Established since 1973, this Oakfield-based log home building company operates Maine’s largest cedar mill.

Real Log Homes

The roots of this New Hampshire design-build company go back to 1963 when the first log home was fashioned out of white pine trees. They use their own manufacturing process, which uses a machine known for high precision cutting to make pre-cut log structures.

Town & Country Cedar Homes

Opening in 1947, this company has worked coast to coast to create white cedar, flared bottoms, and burled trusses that are one the signature characteristics that distinguish the logs used by them. In addition to manufacturing, the company offers design-build services, including architectural drawings, greenhouse design and construction, project management, and site planning.

Estemerwalt Log Homes

In the 1980’s Estemerwalt began to specialize in log homes. They operate out of Honesdale, PA, and have a full-service sawmill where it sews, dries, and manufactures every wood surface that goes into one of its homes. Most of the wood used is eastern white pine, which is durable and naturally resists decay.

Jeremiah Johnson Log Homes

A native of Minnesota, Dennis Anderson took over his family’s construction business and by 1995 expanded services to include rustic mountain homes. By the early 2000s, they were specializing in making and building homes made of lodgepole blue stain pine and western red cedar. Today, the company is the largest log building homemaker in Colorado who sell log cabin package kits, log home plans, designs, and architectural services.

It’s no surprise that there are copious amounts of great companies around the world who specialize in log home construction and design. Finding a company that fits your needs is solely up to your personal discretion and log home objectives. We at Artisan are proud to be log home builders in Canada and the US.

If you have any questions feel free to send us an email info@artisanlog.com or give us a call, we are always happy to help you out!

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Sunday, November 4, 2018

3 Ways to Develop Leaders in Your School or Classroom

I used to get teased mercilessly by some saying that everyone in education can be a “leader.” If you think of leadership in the traditional context, it is more about positions of authority than it is about ability. For example, not all administrators are leaders, and not all leaders are administrators.  It is a skill and process to be developed.

For this post, here is what I mean when I discuss the term “leader”:

A leader has the ability to move others forward in a positive direction.

Is this something you believe all people can attain in some aspect of their lives, personally or professionally? There is a difference between being “the leader” and “a leader.”

This doesn’t mean that you are either a “leader” or a “follower.” Some of the best leaders that I know are incredible followers and know when to step back instead of stepping up.

But if we look at leadership as the ability to move others forward in a positive direction, how do we develop this in our staff and our students?

Here are a few things to think about:


1. Build on the strengths and passions of people instead of focusing on their weaknesses.

If leadership is “the ability to move others forward in a positive direction,” how do we get people to positively move people forward in areas that they hate or have no interest in pursuing?

One of my staff who was not the best at the technology but had a strong passion for learning it took over the “tech lead” position in my school. His enthusiasm was infectious, as was his willingness to learn with others. Others took note and jumped on board.

Another staff member was teaching classes they hated and was interested in taking over the physical education program. Once he took over the program, I noticed that he had made an impact on other programs and passions in the school because there was more time to focus on what he was good at instead of wading through what he had hated.  This doesn’t mean that we don’t have to do some of the undesirable tasks, they just become much more tolerable when we are given authentic opportunities to tap into our passions on a consistent basis.

This is not reserved for staff only.

One teacher I know developed a “communications department” in her classroom instead of simply having social media accounts prepared for the students. The students went on and suggested which platforms they should use based on why they thought it was important and what audience it would reach. This was not something they were assigned to do, but something they applied to do because of their passion or strength in the area. It provided so much more learning than simply having a “tweeter” of the day, which leads me to the second point.

2. Give ownership over the process, not just the problem.

Do you know the leader who wants you to go figure out a problem but they walk you around ideas so that you believe their idea is your idea? They might want you to take over the solution but they have an exact way of figuring out the problem. This is compliance as a cover for leadership.

If you are to develop someone as a true leader based on their gifts and abilities, you have to trust them with the process as well. It may not be the way YOU would do it, but if they are expected to produce results without having ownership over the way they do things, this is a recipe to ensure that you will get the bare minimum instead of something you could not have conceived on your own.

More trust has to be given in this process because this confidence is crucial to the development of others. Giving leadership opportunities to others, by definition, is leading.

This leads to the last point.

3. Know when to follow.

Sometimes you may know more than the person taking over the process. It may be hard to step back, but sometimes it is necessary. The best leaders I know when to give over the process, and stand back when it is hard to do so. The process is the part that leads to the growth of others.

There is a difference between delegating to get out of work and delegating to give over opportunities to build culture. I have seen administrators have people take over with no interest in where the process goes unless it goes well. Then they are ready to take credit. Being involved in the process is still necessary as mentorship and reciprocated learning is beneficial to all parties.

Sometimes the best way to lead is to go to the back and support, not necessarily get out of the way.


Organizations, schools, and classrooms tend to move forward quickly when we develop a multitude of leaders in different areas than focusing on the abilities of a sole individual.  Building on the strengths and passions, giving ownership over the process, and knowing when to step-up or when to step back, is crucial to developing more leaders in your environment, not just followers.

Source: George Couros



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3 Ways to Develop Leaders in Your School or Classroom

I used to get teased mercilessly by some saying that everyone in education can be a “leader.” If you think of leadership in the traditional context, it is more about positions of authority than it is about ability. For example, not all administrators are leaders, and not all leaders are administrators.  It is a skill and process to be developed.

For this post, here is what I mean when I discuss the term “leader”:

A leader has the ability to move others forward in a positive direction.

Is this something you believe all people can attain in some aspect of their lives, personally or professionally? There is a difference between being “the leader” and “a leader.”

This doesn’t mean that you are either a “leader” or a “follower.” Some of the best leaders that I know are incredible followers and know when to step back instead of stepping up.

But if we look at leadership as the ability to move others forward in a positive direction, how do we develop this in our staff and our students?

Here are a few things to think about:


1. Build on the strengths and passions of people instead of focusing on their weaknesses.

If leadership is “the ability to move others forward in a positive direction,” how do we get people to positively move people forward in areas that they hate or have no interest in pursuing?

One of my staff who was not the best at the technology but had a strong passion for learning it took over the “tech lead” position in my school. His enthusiasm was infectious, as was his willingness to learn with others. Others took note and jumped on board.

Another staff member was teaching classes they hated and was interested in taking over the physical education program. Once he took over the program, I noticed that he had made an impact on other programs and passions in the school because there was more time to focus on what he was good at instead of wading through what he had hated.  This doesn’t mean that we don’t have to do some of the undesirable tasks, they just become much more tolerable when we are given authentic opportunities to tap into our passions on a consistent basis.

This is not reserved for staff only.

One teacher I know developed a “communications department” in her classroom instead of simply having social media accounts prepared for the students. The students went on and suggested which platforms they should use based on why they thought it was important and what audience it would reach. This was not something they were assigned to do, but something they applied to do because of their passion or strength in the area. It provided so much more learning than simply having a “tweeter” of the day, which leads me to the second point.

2. Give ownership over the process, not just the problem.

Do you know the leader who wants you to go figure out a problem but they walk you around ideas so that you believe their idea is your idea? They might want you to take over the solution but they have an exact way of figuring out the problem. This is compliance as a cover for leadership.

If you are to develop someone as a true leader based on their gifts and abilities, you have to trust them with the process as well. It may not be the way YOU would do it, but if they are expected to produce results without having ownership over the way they do things, this is a recipe to ensure that you will get the bare minimum instead of something you could not have conceived on your own.

More trust has to be given in this process because this confidence is crucial to the development of others. Giving leadership opportunities to others, by definition, is leading.

This leads to the last point.

3. Know when to follow.

Sometimes you may know more than the person taking over the process. It may be hard to step back, but sometimes it is necessary. The best leaders I know when to give over the process, and stand back when it is hard to do so. The process is the part that leads to the growth of others.

There is a difference between delegating to get out of work and delegating to give over opportunities to build culture. I have seen administrators have people take over with no interest in where the process goes unless it goes well. Then they are ready to take credit. Being involved in the process is still necessary as mentorship and reciprocated learning is beneficial to all parties.

Sometimes the best way to lead is to go to the back and support, not necessarily get out of the way.


Organizations, schools, and classrooms tend to move forward quickly when we develop a multitude of leaders in different areas than focusing on the abilities of a sole individual.  Building on the strengths and passions, giving ownership over the process, and knowing when to step-up or when to step back, is crucial to developing more leaders in your environment, not just followers.



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Bring Me To Tears

So a couple of weeks ago, as part of my usual classroom walk through routine, I stopped by a K1 (4 year old) class and sat down to watch. The kids were all seated on the rug and counting out loud the number of days that we had been in school so far this year, and of course it was super cute. As part of the lesson they were also learning how to draw the numbers on small square pieces of blue paper, and one lucky child was asked to put their own number drawing up on the display calendar for the class to see. Well, this little one was struggling a bit to form the numbers with her pencil so one of the teachers brought her to the table where I was sitting to practice…she was very excited.

The child tried a couple of times to write out the number 24 but it simply came out as squiggly little lines, so the teacher held the child’s hand and helped her write it down. After a few of these practices together, the teacher then let the child trace the numbers individually several times on her own until she felt confident enough to try again without any help. The whole time I was watching, I was amazed by the sheer determination and tremendous effort on the part of the child to learn, and I was inspired by the teacher’s encouragement and willingness to let the child struggle without coming to her rescue. Every few seconds the child would stop and look up at me and smile, giving me a look of “I got this” before putting her head back down and getting on with the learning at hand. Finally, after many tries and lots of struggle, the child took a brand new piece of paper and drew a beautiful number 24 on the little blue square and ran to go hang in up on the chart for all the world to see…and then it happened…for whatever reason, I burst into tears.

As I got up and left the room to compose myself, and to find some tissues, I began thinking about why that experience got me so emotional. I guess I just simply got overwhelmed in that moment…not just by the natural beauty of a young child so authentically learning, but also by how fortunate I am to be an educator. To be able to witness moments like that in life is such a tremendous gift, and as I wiped the tears away I felt my heart swelling up with joy knowing that magical moments like that are available to me behind each and every classroom door, each and every day of the year…how lucky am I? I guess my message this week for all of us is to keep our eyes wide open for those light bulb moments with kids, and to purposely search them out and celebrate them when you see them happen. Moments where hard work and struggle and effort and joy turn into life changing experiences for children…and for educators.

That little girl’s experience may be something that over time she won’t remember, but it will surely have a lasting effect on her relationship with learning and with school and on her life. The life lesson that we all need to learn early on, that if you work hard and practice and learn to find comfort in the struggle then eventually you’ll find some success. Those light bulb moments happen every day in schools and in all grade levels, so search them out and share them with others…share them with me! I’ll always remember that moment and that little girl, and for that I am grateful…I’m also grateful to have chosen this vocation because true magic is happening every minute of the day, and as educators we are able to be a part of it…magic that will literally bring you to tears. Have a wonderful week everyone and remember to be great for our students and good to each other.

 

Quote of the Week…

Teaching kids to count is fine, but teaching them what counts is best

– Bob Talbert

 

Related Articles – 

The Joy of Learning

The Joys of Teaching

Recognizing Student Success

Happy Students

 

Interesting TED Talks – 

Building a Better Future

On Being Wrong

Teaching for Mastery

Where Joy Hides

Ice Cold Water

 

Beautiful Videos – (These will make your day)

Unlikely Hero

Squirrel Rescue 

Real Life Cinderella 



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Friday, November 2, 2018

Galleria Concord Gardens

Galleria by Concord Pacific is a new transit community located at No.3 Road and Capstan Way in Richmond. This project in inspired by art and technology, and includes spa-inspired bathrooms, Miele appliances, and a unique art facility area for children. Located just steps away from a 2-acre neighbourhood park, Galleria brings contemporary living to a park-side setting. 

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5 Questions for Deeper Reflection


Reflection is important for growth. But we have to be intentional about it. Our reflection is meaningless unless we do something with it. It has to change us. Or, it has to help us change directions. Effective people are reflective people.

Many years ago I read Dale Carnegie's incredible book, How to Win Friends and Influence People. Just this last week, I decided to start reading it again. Carnegie tells the story of a bank president who for many years made it a practice to reflect at the end of each week on every appointment he had in the previous week. He would ask himself the following questions:

"What mistakes did I make that time?"

"What did I do that was right--and in what way could I have improved my performance?"

"What lessons can I learn from that experience?"

The banker attributed his great success in large part to his system:
I often found that this weekly review made me very unhappy. I was frequently astonished at my own blunders. Of course, as the years passed, these blunders became less frequent. Sometimes I was inclined to pat myself on the back a little after one of these sessions. This system of self-analysis, self-education, that continued year after year, did more for me than any other one thing I have ever attempted.
It helped me improve my ability to make decisions--and it aided me enormously in all my contacts with people. I cannot recommend it too highly. 
I also try to make it a point to consistently reflect on how things are going in my work. However, I don't have a process as systematic as what's described by the banker. Maybe that's something I should consider.

This week as I'm reflecting, I thought of a few more questions to consider...

1. How is the reluctant learner experiencing our school (or your classroom if you're a teacher)?

We may think about how our students are doing overall, but I think we need to be especially attentive to how the reluctant learner is doing. If we create an experience that engages some of our most challenging students, that same experience will also probably benefit our other students too. We're aiming to create a place where even kids who "hate school" love to learn.

2. Am I measuring with a yardstick of my own years?

When I get frustrated with some of the behaviors I see in students, I need to be reminded that they are often acting exactly like 15-year-olds are inclined to act. That doesn't mean that I don't try to influence them to rise up, but I can't get frustrated when they don't think, or act, like me. That sounds ridiculous doesn't it? But I think we all tend to get frustrated if people don't act just like we think they should.

3. Do I have a healthy level of dissatisfaction with my own performance?

At the end of the day, it's important to be content with doing my best but to also be dissatisfied with how things are. I don't want to become complacent. And I don't want to beat myself up when I make a mistake. So be content, but never be satisfied. 

4. Are there ways I'm falling into binary thinking?

Binary thinking creates false dichotomies. It's either/or. Effective leadership almost always requires a more nuanced position. We can have fun AND have high expectations. We can use technology AND develop social skills and teamwork. We can encourage student agency/inquiry AND improve achievement. It's not all or nothing.

5. What specific strategies am I using to motivate students (and teachers)?

I'm thinking about the ways I influence student and teacher motivation. Am I doing it by connecting and building relationships? Am I doing it by clearing barriers and showing support? Am I motivating students by creating a positive environment? Just what are the specific strategies I'm using to motivate? Food for thought.

So how are you developing a reflection routine? Would you benefit from having intentional reflection each week? Let me know what you think. Leave a comment below or respond on Facebook or Twitter.

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