Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Easy White Chocolate Mousse

Easy white chocolate mousse made with cream cheese for an amazingly delicious treat that’s perfect for Valentine’s Day or any day!

Easy white chocolate mousse made with cream cheese for an amazingly delicious treat that's perfect for Valentine's Day or a random Tuesday! Perfect for your sweetie!

Whether or not you celebrate Valentine’s Day, it’s a great excuse to make chocolaty treats. Who’s with me?

It doesn’t get much easier than this white chocolate mousse. Raspberries and white chocolate is already an amazing combination and the addition of cream cheese just sends it over-the-top. If you also love that combo, try these no-bake mini raspberry cheesecakes, which is probably one of my favorite recipes ever.

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Monday, January 30, 2017

Creating “Purposeful Conflict”

I tweeted this article from Tina Seelig, “Teaching — It’s about Inspiration, Not Information“, and asked the following question on Twitter:

Curious what you think about this quote from Tina Seelig? Some would be on the exact opposite side of this spectrum:

Finally, never tell students what they need to do to get an “A” in the class.If you do, they will inevitably do the minimum amount to get the grade they want. Instead I tell my students to “never miss an opportunity to be fabulous.” I promise to deliver my very best in each class, and I expect the same from them. I also tell them that I have no problem giving everyone an “A,” but that the bar is very high.

The conversation that ensued after was great, with people on both sides of the spectrum.  Why the quote stopped me on my tracks was that I recently watched a video with Dylan Wiliam and it seemed that he gave the exact opposite advice.  He wanted clear connections to the learning, and that students should know expectations clearly.  Opposite ends of the spectrum, yet both focused on ensuring that students are successful.

Yet is one focused on students doing well at “school”, while one is focused on “creativity and innovation”?  If I give a student a concrete set of ways to get somewhere, what room is there for creativity and innovation?  Yet, if students can’t understand what is needed, there are areas that they might struggle.  Government organizations don’t necessarily want you to be “creative” when doing your taxes.

So if both are needed, how do we make it happen? How much time is allocated in learning?  How often do we have students set their own expectations and guidelines, or do we do it for them, and if we do, is it too often or not enough?  Is this something more for our older students, or do we need to start younger so that students become too “schooled”?

Lots of questions, but I do not have a clear answer.  Hopefully you don’t either.  The reason I share this quote and an opposing side is that these types of ideas are wonderful for times with our community where we create this “purposeful conflict”. Do we discuss, debate, and share ideas like this so that we can learn from one another.

To be honest, I threw the question out there on Twitter, and just sat back.  People were all over the place, but here was my favourite tweet:

That was the point in the first place. For people to discuss, think, and have ideas where they were, while having the openness to learning from other viewpoints.

Creating “purposeful conflict” in our learning time with one another teaches not only to debate ideas, but how to do it in respectful ways, and learning from one another, while helping our schools move forward.

What are some of your big statements that might create some “grey” in your staff discussions?

-Purposeful Conflict is crucial to the grow



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Creating “Purposeful Conflict”

I tweeted this article from Tina Seelig, “Teaching — It’s about Inspiration, Not Information“, and asked the following question on Twitter:

Curious what you think about this quote from Tina Seelig? Some would be on the exact opposite side of this spectrum:

Finally, never tell students what they need to do to get an “A” in the class.If you do, they will inevitably do the minimum amount to get the grade they want. Instead I tell my students to “never miss an opportunity to be fabulous.” I promise to deliver my very best in each class, and I expect the same from them. I also tell them that I have no problem giving everyone an “A,” but that the bar is very high.

The conversation that ensued after was great, with people on both sides of the spectrum.  Why the quote stopped me on my tracks was that I recently watched a video with Dylan Wiliam and it seemed that he gave the exact opposite advice.  He wanted clear connections to the learning, and that students should know expectations clearly.  Opposite ends of the spectrum, yet both focused on ensuring that students are successful.

Yet is one focused on students doing well at “school”, while one is focused on “creativity and innovation”?  If I give a student a concrete set of ways to get somewhere, what room is there for creativity and innovation?  Yet, if students can’t understand what is needed, there are areas that they might struggle.  Government organizations don’t necessarily want you to be “creative” when doing your taxes.

So if both are needed, how do we make it happen? How much time is allocated in learning?  How often do we have students set their own expectations and guidelines, or do we do it for them, and if we do, is it too often or not enough?  Is this something more for our older students, or do we need to start younger so that students become too “schooled”?

Lots of questions, but I do not have a clear answer.  Hopefully you don’t either.  The reason I share this quote and an opposing side is that these types of ideas are wonderful for times with our community where we create this “purposeful conflict”. Do we discuss, debate, and share ideas like this so that we can learn from one another.

To be honest, I threw the question out there on Twitter, and just sat back.  People were all over the place, but here was my favourite tweet:

That was the point in the first place. For people to discuss, think, and have ideas where they were, while having the openness to learning from other viewpoints.

Creating “purposeful conflict” in our learning time with one another teaches not only to debate ideas, but how to do it in respectful ways, and learning from one another, while helping our schools move forward.

What are some of your big statements that might create some “grey” in your staff discussions?

-Purposeful Conflict is crucial to the grow

Source: George Couros



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2017 Home Design Trends: Log and Timber Homes

A new year is a fresh start, and where better to begin than right at home? It’s time to update the old and bring in the latest design trends.

The good news is that 2016’s more neutral, airy decor choices continue into 2017. However, this year’s style adds some bold and natural accents to create contrast in rooms.

You can expect to see more interiors that complement rustic charm with urban fashion, which is a nice fit for log or timber framed homes.

Here are the top home design trends to watch for in 2017:

Urban farmstead

A log or timber framed home defines this trend perfectly, mixing natural elements with urban accents. Organic wooden countertops and cupboards compliment clean white walls and floors, especially in kitchens. In the bathroom, natural stone, like marble flooring, contrasts with grey or black metallic fixtures and frames. (1)2017 Home Design Trends - Urban farmstead

Beige is back

This isn’t your parents’ beige. New, modern, airy shades are emerging. The reinvented versions keep the cozy warmth of blankets without the stuffy dated feeling. From furnishings to decorative wall paneling, homes will incorporate cooler shades of this classic colour. (1)2017 Home Design Trends - Beige is back


Yellow brightens up rooms

This cheerful colour is showing up more and more in design magazines. However, you won’t need your sunglasses. Bold yellows will only be used as accents, such as on cupboard doors. On whole walls, happy, muted shades will bring subtle sunrise shades inside. (2)2017 Home Design Trends yellow brightens accent in kitchen

Greenery wins colour of the year

Pantone released its most popular colour of 2016: Greenery. As a continuation to the natural tone trends above, 2017 will have more green in colour palettes. Try it in a living room to create a calming oasis. (2)2017 Home Design - green

Wilderness on the walls

Wall paper is a quick way to change the look of any room. Unlike 2016’s bold patterns and geometric prints, botanical designs are trending this year. Trees, flowers and artistic hand drawn pieces will bring inspiration from the wild to your walls. (2)2017 Home Design Trends - Wilderness on the walls

Bold backsplashes, romantic retreats

Pops of prominent colour in the kitchen, especially using tile backsplashes, contrast nicely with white surfaces and natural wood accents.2 In the bedroom, however, homeowners are split between more “intimate” or “cozy” tones. Some are choosing tranquil pastels while others select romantic reds and rich browns. (1)

2017 Home Design - Bold Backs plashDIY decor

Last year was a year of reclaimed and refinished furniture, and 2017 will step it up a notch. This time it’s less about rebuilding and more about repurposing. For instance, imagine converting a dresser into a bathroom vanity for a splash of unexpected interest. (1)2017 Home Design Trends - DIY Decor

This year, homes embrace the peace of the outdoors, the city’s style, and colours that set the mood.

Gone are the days of dark “cabin-like” log homes. Like 2017’s decor, modern timber framed homes incorporate the latest finishings with timeless natural accents.

Looking for more home design inspiration? Check out our other articles:

Sources:
1.Stone, M. (2016, December 20). Design experts say these will be the biggest trends in American homes in 2017. Business Insider.
2.Cook, K. (2016, December 20). Home decor trends for 2017 are all about ease, comfort. CTV News.



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Sunday, January 29, 2017

What Do You Want Your Legacy to Be?



Your legacy is one of your most valuable possessions. It is a treasure. It is your gift to the world. For every person you come in contact with, your influence—good and badgoes with them to some extent. Your legacy is how you are remembered.

Who Has Inspired You?

There are a number of educators, and other mentors, who have had a profound impact on my life. They influence me even when they are not present, even if I have not seen or spoken with them in years. Just thinking about the type of person they are inspires me even now to learn more, dream more, do more, and become more.

These people lift me up and make me stronger. They have a strong legacy in my life.

How Will You Inspire Others?

I want to have a strong legacy too. Not only because I want to be remembered fondly. Of course, I do. But more importantly, I want to make a difference. I want my life to count for something bigger than me. I want to be that legacy person for someone else. I want to help others.

I was recently listening to a podcast by Andy Stanley. He shared an exercise he said changed his life many years ago. He was reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey. 

In 7 Habits, Covey challenges his readers with an exercise that is profound. You might find it unsettling or even slightly grim. But I urge you to read it carefully and thoughtfully. As you read the excerpt, consider how reflecting on this passage might be life changing for you too.
In your mind’s eye, see yourself going to the funeral of a loved one. Picture yourself driving to the funeral parlor or chapel, parking the car, and getting out. As you walk inside the building, you notice the flowers, the soft organ music. You see the faces of friends and family you pass along the way. You feel the shared sorrow of losing, the joy of having known, that radiates from the hearts of the people there.
As you walk down to the front of the room and look inside the casket, you suddenly come face to face with yourself. This is your funeral, three years from today. All these people have come to honor you, to express feelings of love and appreciation for your life.
As you take a seat and wait for the services to begin, you look at the program in your hand. There are to be four speakers. The first is from your family, immediate and also extended —children, brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces, aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents who have come from all over the country to attend. The second speaker is one of your friends, someone who can give a sense of what you were as a person. The third speaker is from your work or profession. And the fourth is from your church or some community organization where you’ve been involved in service.
Now think deeply. What would you like each of these speakers to say about you and your life? What kind of husband, wife, father, or mother would like their words to reflect? What kind of son or daughter or cousin? What kind of friend? What kind of working associate?
What character would you like them to have seen in you? What contributions, what achievements would you want them to remember? Look carefully at the people around you. What difference would you like to have made in their lives?
Stanley shared how he spent several days reflecting, in writing, on the questions set forth in the passage.

The 3-year timeline until your death is an important detail in the exercise. It creates a stronger sense of urgency. As educators, we should always have a sense of urgency too. We may be our students' best hope. But we only have so much time. We may not have the same opportunity to influence them next year. They will likely move on to a new classroom with a different teacher.

Educators Leave a Lasting Legacy

Although the funeral exercise is great reflection for living a meaningful life, how might it be slightly modified to narrow the reflection for you as a teacher/educator? In a similar instance, what might your students say about you as their teacher? What would their parents say? How about the community you where you work? What is your legacy in that?

As I reflect on those questions, I am reminded of what's most important to me. And I am also reminded of things that might distract me from the most important things. The most valuable thing is how I treat people, all of them. People come first. I want to be the kind of person who is always learning, who lifts others up, and who treats people with kindness, care, and consideration.

It's easy to get distracted from the most important things. I am a person who also wants progress, who has goals, who is driven. If fact, in the past, there were times I was too focused on achieving and not tuned in to the people around me. I am working hard to make sure that doesn't happen anymore.

I am convinced that reaching goals, making progress, and achieving success will be more likely to happen—mostly inevitable—if the first priority is people. If we treat people with all the care and concern we possibly can, we will see progress and success like never before. 

I respect every person who works hard and gets stuff done. There is value in working hard and earning a living to support yourself and your loved ones. But teaching provides the opportunity to do far more than just earning a paycheck. It's more than a job. When teaching is your life's work, you have the opportunity to make a lasting difference. You have the opportunity to make an important contribution. Your legacy counts!

So think about it...

What really matters?

What keeps you up at night?

What makes you want to be a better teacher, principal, parent or friend?

I hope these questions are helpful as you think about your legacy and what's most important to you. Reflecting on what you really value is one of the best things you can do to find purpose and meaning in your life and work.

Questions? What do you want your legacy to be? Are you focused on the right things? I want to hear from you. Leave a comment below or respond on Facebook or Twitter.


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A Quick Review of The Guests on South Battery by Karen White AND Books for February

January sped by and now I'm staring February in the face.  Of course all the books I've asked for through the library are now rolling in, so I've got a glut to read.  Gee, twist my arm.  😉  But before I get to what I'm reading for February, I've got a quick review of The Guests on South Battery by Karen White.


I'll tell you right now that I absolutely adore this series.  This is fifth book in the series, so please don't start with this one, but start at the beginning with The House on Tradd Street.  You'll be a bit lost, and darn it, come into the story after all the really good stuff happens between Melanie and Jack.  **Warning:  spoiler alert**

Melanie is returning to work as a realtor specializing in historic homes in her hometown of Charleston, SC.  Work continues on her home, as do the odd paranormal events that come with her home.  Jack is working on a book, and having twin babies means they need a nanny.  Melanie's latest client has inherited a historic home on South Battery Street, and Jayne is eager to sell it.  Very eager to sell it.  It's obvious Jayne is very uneasy around the house, and will do anything to avoid stepping foot in it.  Lucky for Melanie, Jayne is a nanny looking for a job while the house is looked at by a team of historical renovation experts, restored, and all of the valuable antiques are evaluated and sold.  Jayne is a perfect fit for Melanie's household, and her twins Sarah and JJ (both adorable 10 month olds) take to her instantly.  

Meanwhile, lots of recent rainfall has caused part of Melanie's back yard to sink in, exposing a cistern that requires archaeologists from the local college to excavate it, as it's clearly from the early days of Charleston and may be of historical significance.  Only bad thing about it is that something dark and evil has been released and has taken root in Melanie's home.  Also, touring Jayne's home has given Melanie a sense that not only are there spirits around, but one isn't very nice.  Reluctant to embrace her gifts, but frustrated that during her pregnancy they seemed to be blocked, Melanie knows she's being called on to solve another mystery haunting historical Charleston.  But, in doing so, both her and Jack uncover a whole lot more that has repercussions for Melanie and her family.  

I dived right into this novel, and was happy to read the continuation of Melanie and Jack's story.  Here they are happily married, and new parents.  Melanie still suffers from moments of "I can't believe this guy is my husband!" and fresh off of a difficult pregnancy, she doesn't feel her most attractive.  Being a first time mom in her early 40's has given her great joy, but also a bit of a confidence issue.  This is a big part of the story, and while I understand completely, there were times I wanted to shake her!  Just goes to show that marriages always need work, and communication is so important between partners.  I liked the paranormal plot a lot, but I figured it all out pretty quickly so there weren't any surprises.  Still very enjoyable.   I give it a 6/10; it's available in hardcover, e-book, and audio.  If you're a fan of the South, and like a bit of paranormal, family drama, history, and romance, pick up this series.  Can't wait for the next one!

Now, onto my February reads.  I've got a plateful, for sure. 
Moms and drama at a school in small town England

John Wilkes Booth.  Should be interesting

Epistolary novel set during the Civil War

Sequel to the Lace Reader.  I'm giving her another chance

Publisher review.  Thriller. 



 And I'm going to try and squeeze in a romantic read...after all it is the month of love! 
 

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Saturday, January 28, 2017

A downside of setting student academic results targets in schools

When I reflect on the positives of working in my current school and share my thoughts with colleagues from other schools, they are often amazed when I tell them that we do not set specific targets for student results.

Our school does not have a specific average score that it needs to achieve from IB Diploma students or other standardized tests for that matter. I know that many schools have such targets and I have often contemplated the impact of doing so.

Performance targets can give us something to aim for and a school’s reputation may grow from it being able to say that their students received this result and that result, which makes them better than other ‘like’ schools. There is, however, a significant downside to being a results driven school based on student academic success.

The biggest downside, in my opinion, is the associated pressure placed upon teachers to achieve these results and that the support needed for teachers is not commensurate with the goal that they are being asked to achieve. In some cases, teachers are faced with an impossible task and falling short of the set goals can have a devastating impact on teacher morale and could be viewed as detrimental to keeping good teachers in the profession.

Pressure has knock-on effects. The worst impact of a student results given goals is when teachers and school administrators, in too many instances, tell students “you can’t.” In order to achieve particular school-wide statistics, students are told the the subjects and the study track that they will take. This is not necessarily in the best interest of the student but more in the interest of the teacher and the school at large. In extreme instances, if a student is not going to get the highest grades in a course, then they may be told that they cannot do it. In fact, the student may actually have the ability to take on the course and do quite well, but for the sake of preserving the class average, they are either deterred by the teacher or prevented by the school administration from studying that particular course.

This is especially damaging in some schools, where we should be instead telling students, “you can.” Support of student aspirations is essential in schools. We need to give students the confidence to take on challenges and pursue their dreams. Obviously, this needs to be tempered with a level of pragmatic reality with respect to the student’s abilities, but to tell a student that they cannot do something to protect an average score is just plain wrong.

Schools, especially fee-paying ones, in competitive market places present student results statistics to parents as a marketing strategy to get enrollments. Unfortunately, until parents have their children in the school do they then see the reality. The good average scores seem great at first until it is their child that is told that they cannot do something that they are actually capable of doing, then it begins to hurt.

Schools have an obligation to help students reach for the sky and achieve the best they can. We should be challenging students to achieve while they maintaining a healthy balance and outlook on life. Where possible we have to find opportunities to say to our students, “you can,” rather than, “you can’t.”



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Friday, January 27, 2017

A World that is Asking for Continuous Creation

Currently, I am reading “The Growth Mindset Coach“, and was struck by this passage and corresponding table:

(Carol) Dweck identified five key areas in which the actions of people of opposing mindsets often diverge: challenges, obstacles, effort, criticism, and success of others. In the fixed mindset, a response to any of the five situations typically relates to the person’s desire to look smart and avoid failure; in the growth mindset the response more likely stems from the person’s desire to learn and improve. Let’s look at both fixed- and growth-mindset responses to each of these five situations.

 

Situation

Fixed Mindset

Growth Mindset

Challenges

Challenges are avoided to maintain the appearance of intelligence. Challenges are embraced stemming from a desire to learn.

Obstacles

Giving up in the face of obstacles and setbacks is a common response.

Showing perseverance in the face of obstacles and setbacks is a common response.

Effort

Having to try or put in effort is viewed as a negative, if you have to try, you’re not very smart or talented.

Doing hard work and putting in effort paves the path to achievement and success

Criticism Negative feedback regardless of how constructive is ignored.

Criticism provides important feedback that can aid in learning

Success of Others Other people’s success is viewed  as a threat and evokes feels of insecurity or vulnerability.

Other people’s success can be a source of inspiration and education.

I thought this was an awesome way to look at what the “Growth Mindset” means in different situations, but I wanted to adapt it to go a step further with  “The Innovator’s Mindset“.  Here is what I have added:

Adapted from the original as seen in "The Growth Mindset Coach"

Adapted from the original as seen in “The Growth Mindset Coach”.

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As we look at how we see and “do” school, it is important to continuously shift to moving from consumption to creation, engagement to empowerment, and observation to application. It is not that the first replaces the latter, but that we are not settling for the former. A mindset that is simply open to “growth”, will not be enough in a world that is asking for continuous creation of not only products, but ideas.

Source: George Couros



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It's Time for a New Look...

Life's been pretty hectic the past few years, but I've always had a plan to update the look of my blog.  Of course every time I started to seriously think about it I'd get a compliment on the look of my blog, so I felt I shouldn't change it.  

But the time has come.  I've been blogging about books since March of 2010--hard to believe it.  I've changed, so it's time for a fresh look!  The current look to my blog isn't permanent; I'll be experimenting a bit until I find a look that reflects how I feel about books, blogging, and life in 2017.  So be patient, and don't be surprised if you see multiple blog looks over the coming months.  

Meanwhile, I'll continue to blog every week about books I love.  

Cheers!  

Yours in Books

The Bookalicious Babe 

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Wednesday, January 25, 2017

“Use adversity to your advantage.”

One of the things that I have been trying to be really thoughtful of as of late, is what I put into my mind.  I have become more thoughtful about the media I consume, the people I surround myself with, and how I spend my time.  If those things are positive, my thoughts become positive. Physically, I know how drained I become when negative thoughts enter my mind, so I try to continuously be thoughtful of how the two (physical and mental) are so connected, and to try and stay as positive as possible.  Some days are easier than others, but staying mindful is an important step.

Recently, I have started to listen to several playlists and podcasts with advice from “successful” people (“success” being used as a very personal term), and it has given me a lot to think about.  One of the quotes that stuck with me was “use adversity to your advantage”, which is a powerful statement for many reasons.  In Malcolm Gladwell’s book, “David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants”, he says the following:

“What is learned out of necessity is inevitably more powerful than the learning that comes easily.”

It is a powerful statement on how our struggles, if used correctly, can actually be used to our benefit. For that to happen though, we have to own our struggles.

Thinking about this, I have really tried to push people to think about something that they do now, that they swore they would never do.  There are many things that have become commonplace to me, that were once a struggle.  It is quite powerful to recognize this, because you not only see where you have grown, but you remind yourself that you have the ability to grow as well.  It gives us perspective on the past, present, and future of ourselves.

How this is also beneficial, is that it helps us to lead others if we use the memories of our own adversity when trying to understand where they are at currently. We can empathize that each one of us that each of is on our own  journey of learning and growth, and that what you might now see as your norm, might be someone’s first step.  We remember that as human beings, we are all different places in our lives, and what is important is not necessarily  where we are, but that we are moving forward.  Recognize and celebrate that in others, and their willingness to grow will only accelerate.

It is imperative to celebrate the product of our own growth, but it is also important to recognize and acknowledge the journey.  It helps us better understand ourselves while making crucial connections with those we serve.  Embracing our own success with adversity, helps us not only to become stronger, but acknowledges our willingness to see the developing strength in others.

If people can't see themselves in what you are sharing, it doesn't matter how brilliant the idea is.

Source: George Couros



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“Use adversity to your advantage.”

One of the things that I have been trying to be really thoughtful of as of late, is what I put into my mind.  I have become more thoughtful about the media I consume, the people I surround myself with, and how I spend my time.  If those things are positive, my thoughts become positive. Physically, I know how drained I become when negative thoughts enter my mind, so I try to continuously be thoughtful of how the two (physical and mental) are so connected, and to try and stay as positive as possible.  Some days are easier than others, but staying mindful is an important step.

Recently, I have started to listen to several playlists and podcasts with advice from “successful” people (“success” being used as a very personal term), and it has given me a lot to think about.  One of the quotes that stuck with me was “use adversity to your advantage”, which is a powerful statement for many reasons.  In Malcolm Gladwell’s book, “David and Goliath: Underdogs, Misfits, and the Art of Battling Giants”, he says the following:

“What is learned out of necessity is inevitably more powerful than the learning that comes easily.”

It is a powerful statement on how our struggles, if used correctly, can actually be used to our benefit. For that to happen though, we have to own our struggles.

Thinking about this, I have really tried to push people to think about something that they do now, that they swore they would never do.  There are many things that have become commonplace to me, that were once a struggle.  It is quite powerful to recognize this, because you not only see where you have grown, but you remind yourself that you have the ability to grow as well.  It gives us perspective on the past, present, and future of ourselves.

How this is also beneficial, is that it helps us to lead others if we use the memories of our own adversity when trying to understand where they are at currently. We can empathize that each one of us that each of is on our own  journey of learning and growth, and that what you might now see as your norm, might be someone’s first step.  We remember that as human beings, we are all different places in our lives, and what is important is not necessarily  where we are, but that we are moving forward.  Recognize and celebrate that in others, and their willingness to grow will only accelerate.

It is imperative to celebrate the product of our own growth, but it is also important to recognize and acknowledge the journey.  It helps us better understand ourselves while making crucial connections with those we serve.  Embracing our own success with adversity, helps us not only to become stronger, but acknowledges our willingness to see the developing strength in others.

If people can't see themselves in what you are sharing, it doesn't matter how brilliant the idea is.



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PMP 051: The Shocking Truth About Your Decision-Making

When I was going to graduate school for my Master’s Degree in Education Leadership, I decided to conduct my own informal research. Over a number of weeks, I talked to current and retired principals about what they considered to be the lessons they had learned from their years in school leadership. I remember one man […]

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Tuesday, January 24, 2017

Moloka'i by Alan Brennert

It's not a new publication (2003), but hey--that's what makes books such a treat.  It's a new book if you've never read it before.  The tale of this book for me goes back a few years.  When I'd shelve books in the fiction section of my bookstore, this was a constant restock and it always seemed to be sitting face out on the shelf.  I looked at it time and time again for years but never picked it up.  

Forward 14 years, and I'm thinking of what topic I can talk about for my first book talk of 2017.  I usually read non-fiction books that have a medical aspect to them for my book talks at my hospital, and this time I thought I'd try a fiction novel with a medical element. Moloka'i came to mind immediately.  Aha! Now I had a reason to read it.  It was just the historical fiction novel I needed to read in January.

Moloka'i takes place in Hawaii from 1891 through 1970.  It's a historical span that saw Hawaii move from a sovereign country ruled by a king, to a piece of American territory, to finally, the 50th and final state in the United States.  All of this is background to the tale of Rachel Kalama, a seven year old Hawaiian girl who lives with her family in Honolulu.  Her father is a merchant seaman, and every time he comes home, he brings Rachel a doll from far away lands.  

A darkness is starting to creep over Hawaii, and it is leprosy.  The native Hawaiians had no immunity to it, and the biblical tales of horrible disfigurement and spread of the disease had people fearful of it and willing to turn friends and family in when it was discovered they had a spot on their skin that was suspicious.  Rachel's Uncle is taken away, and her family lives in fear that someone else will catch it.  Rachel's mother Dorothy discovers a red patch of skin on Rachel's thigh, and keeps it covered and tells no one.  It soon becomes apparent that Rachel may have leprosy as another spot appears on her foot. Dorothy makes her wear shoes to school, and Rachel is unaware of why her mother is so fearful.  An argument at school with her sister reveals Rachel's secret, and the inspector comes for Rachel.  Taken away to a medical facility, she is looked over and put under isolation, away from her family and friends.  Distraught--remember, she's only seven years old--Rachel's behavior becomes a problem, and her parents are notified that she will be taken to Kalaupapa, on the island of Moloka'i.  It's a leprosy settlement, where people are taken to live out the remainder of their lives. These are people who never see their families again, aren't allowed to leave the island, and live under terrible conditions.  No one knows how to fight leprosy, so they are left to slowly succumb to the horrible afflictions the disease imposes.  

What follows is the tale of Rachel's life on Moloka'i as she adjusts to living without her family or friends, and living with the fear of what leprosy will do to her one day.  Nuns also live on Moloka'i, running a boarding home for young girls (the boys have a separate home), and working tirelessly to provide some comfort and spiritual guidance to the many who are forced to live in Kalaupapa.  

I've never read much about Hawaiian history, and this was fascinating.  You can actually travel to Moloka'i and visit Kalaupapa.  It wasn't until the late 20th century that people were no longer stigmatized by leprosy and allowed to leave Moloka'i.  Now called Hansen's disease, it is curable and almost wiped out.  Rachel's story is one of immense sadness, with hints of joy and beauty in the people she comes to know and love, and in Rachel's ability to adjust to a new world without her family.  It's painful to think children were taken away from their families, never to see them again.  But it did happen.  Even in paradise, darkness lurks.  Alan Brennert did his research, and his writing is such that you quickly become immersed in the story and it's hard to put down.  

I was happily surprised at this novel, and loved reading about Hawaii's history and legends.  I also learned a lot about leprosy, and how terribly people were treated through ignorance and a complete faith in outdated beliefs.  Rachel was an amazing young woman, who persevered through tragedy with the hope that one day she would be free to leave Moloka'i.  I won't tell you what happens, so you'll just have to read the book!

Rating:  8/10 for a well researched historical novel about 20th century Hawaii, leprosy, and an amazing young woman who never gave up.  

Available in paperback and e-book.  

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Monday, January 23, 2017

5 Questions to Help People Embrace Meaningful Change

 

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One of the biggest errors in leadership is when people aren’t moving forward and leaders look outward first, and not inward.  If you are wondering why people aren’t moving forward, ask how you are changing your leadership first, not why they aren’t changing their practice.  I have seen this mistake over and over again in my travels.  Administrators wonder, “Why aren’t people embracing this new idea or initiative?”, and their first inclination is to blame, not to rethink their leadership.  This practice is no different than an educator with a struggling student, trying the same practice over and over again, and wondering why the student still doesn’t understand?

In my book, “The Innovator’s Mindset”, I focus on five areas that have the possibility of making a significant impact on the likelihood of creating an environment where people are more willing to embrace meaningful change.  The five areas are as follows:

  1. Strengths-Based Leadership (How do we focus on strengths of those that we serve?)
  2. Powerful Learning First, Technology Second (What is the type of learning that we want to see in our schools, and what resources will support this learning in our schools?)
  3. Less is More (Are we focusing on doing everything, or a deep focus on a few things?)
  4. Embracing an Open Culture (How do we continuously tap into the expertise of our own community?)
  5. Creating Meaningful Learning Experiences for Educators (When people wake up for a professional learning day, are they looking forward to the learning, or the hour lunch?)

Based on these five conditions, here are five questions that can help guide your practice:

1. Do I know and build upon the strengths of those I serve? (Strengths-Based Leadership)

When people ask me about entering a new situation, one of the first questions they ask is, “What should I change first?” My answer? Nothing.

Create a spreadsheet (seriously), put every staff member’s name on that spreadsheet, and then create a columb beside that says, “strength”. Until you can fill that entire thing out, do not change anything. When people know that they are valued (and knowing they are valued and being valued are not always the same thing; knowing is crucial), they are more likely to embrace new opportunities and take risks in pursuit of becoming better. Start where people are strong, not where they are weak.

2. What is the “clear” vision for learning in your school? (Powerful Learning First, Technology Second)

You will hear things such as, “We need to become more innovative.”, yet many people will have no idea what that means. Does it mean that we need to use technology more? Does it mean that some of the things that we are doing are not acceptable?

Having a vision of where you (the organization) want to go, but if people do not understand the vision or see themselves in it, it is simply words on a website. Discussing the vision for learning on and ongoing basis, giving relevant examples, happening both in and outside of your school, helps make the abstract into the concrete. Having a vision is important but not if no one understand where it is leading, and how you are getting there.

3. What are the few purposeful areas that we are focused on? (Less is More)

Go into most schools or districts, and there are usually a plethora of initiatives. People do not excel when they feel overwhelmed, or that they believe the following with any initiative; “this too shall pass.” Take a good look at the initiatives that are happening in your school, and ask what is most important right now. Then focus on that and come back to it, consistently. Do not have a series of professional learning days that are focused on a new thing each time. There will never be depth in what we do, if we are not willing to place focus on what is important.

4. How do we share openly and regularly to further our own learning and development? (Embracing an Open Culture)

Often what you share is what you value.

Historically though, schools have been walled off from others in the own building, and the expertise is not tapped into within. No matter where I go, people that are doing amazing things in their own school will say things such as, “You can’t be a prophet in your own land.”, and I always think, “Why not?”

Create a culture where people value and learn from one another often.Using Twitter for ongoing professional learning can open up ideas on a global scale, but it can also help you connect within your own community (Related article…6 Ways to Use Twitter to Enhance In-School Professional Learning). This is a simple idea that can have a profound impact.

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Learn often from the people you have the most access to. They will keep you accountable to one another.

5. Do our professional learning opportunities mirror the learning we want to create for our students? (Creating Meaningful Learning Experiences for Educators)

You recreate what you experience. Yet professional learning often stays the same, while we hope classrooms will change. What people get mixed up with here is that “lectures” are no longer valid, and I would disagree. A great lecture can really push my thinking, and inspire me when I need inspiration. But if that is the only way we learn when we our together (and we only learn together on days that are allocated), then we are not using our time in the best way possible.

Think of it this way…when you are with a group of educators, what you teach is as important as how you teach. I have made a concerted effort as of late to not only share ideas, but explain why I use the process that I do, and ask participants to reflect on how it can be used in their own classrooms. Making this explicit connection can have a significant impact on the learning of your entire community, which is the hope for all professional learning time.


 

These questions can make a significant difference upon inward reflections of leadership. One component that is crucial is that as a leader we learn to ask them continuously, not simply go through them once, and then move on. It is consistent effort at high quality that will lead to the success of any individual or group.

Source: George Couros



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5 Questions to Help People Embrace Meaningful Change

 

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One of the biggest errors in leadership is when people aren’t moving forward and leaders look outward first, and not inward.  If you are wondering why people aren’t moving forward, ask how you are changing your leadership first, not why they aren’t changing their practice.  I have seen this mistake over and over again in my travels.  Administrators wonder, “Why aren’t people embracing this new idea or initiative?”, and their first inclination is to blame, not to rethink their leadership.  This practice is no different than an educator with a struggling student, trying the same practice over and over again, and wondering why the student still doesn’t understand?

In my book, “The Innovator’s Mindset”, I focus on five areas that have the possibility of making a significant impact on the likelihood of creating an environment where people are more willing to embrace meaningful change.  The five areas are as follows:

  1. Strengths-Based Leadership (How do we focus on strengths of those that we serve?)
  2. Powerful Learning First, Technology Second (What is the type of learning that we want to see in our schools, and what resources will support this learning in our schools?)
  3. Less is More (Are we focusing on doing everything, or a deep focus on a few things?)
  4. Embracing an Open Culture (How do we continuously tap into the expertise of our own community?)
  5. Creating Meaningful Learning Experiences for Educators (When people wake up for a professional learning day, are they looking forward to the learning, or the hour lunch?)

Based on these five conditions, here are five questions that can help guide your practice:

1. Do I know and build upon the strengths of those I serve? (Strengths-Based Leadership)

When people ask me about entering a new situation, one of the first questions they ask is, “What should I change first?” My answer? Nothing.

Create a spreadsheet (seriously), put every staff member’s name on that spreadsheet, and then create a columb beside that says, “strength”. Until you can fill that entire thing out, do not change anything. When people know that they are valued (and knowing they are valued and being valued are not always the same thing; knowing is crucial), they are more likely to embrace new opportunities and take risks in pursuit of becoming better. Start where people are strong, not where they are weak.

2. What is the “clear” vision for learning in your school? (Powerful Learning First, Technology Second)

You will hear things such as, “We need to become more innovative.”, yet many people will have no idea what that means. Does it mean that we need to use technology more? Does it mean that some of the things that we are doing are not acceptable?

Having a vision of where you (the organization) want to go, but if people do not understand the vision or see themselves in it, it is simply words on a website. Discussing the vision for learning on and ongoing basis, giving relevant examples, happening both in and outside of your school, helps make the abstract into the concrete. Having a vision is important but not if no one understand where it is leading, and how you are getting there.

3. What are the few purposeful areas that we are focused on? (Less is More)

Go into most schools or districts, and there are usually a plethora of initiatives. People do not excel when they feel overwhelmed, or that they believe the following with any initiative; “this too shall pass.” Take a good look at the initiatives that are happening in your school, and ask what is most important right now. Then focus on that and come back to it, consistently. Do not have a series of professional learning days that are focused on a new thing each time. There will never be depth in what we do, if we are not willing to place focus on what is important.

4. How do we share openly and regularly to further our own learning and development? (Embracing an Open Culture)

Often what you share is what you value.

Historically though, schools have been walled off from others in the own building, and the expertise is not tapped into within. No matter where I go, people that are doing amazing things in their own school will say things such as, “You can’t be a prophet in your own land.”, and I always think, “Why not?”

Create a culture where people value and learn from one another often.Using Twitter for ongoing professional learning can open up ideas on a global scale, but it can also help you connect within your own community (Related article…6 Ways to Use Twitter to Enhance In-School Professional Learning). This is a simple idea that can have a profound impact.

Screen Shot 2016-06-05 at 5.37.08 PM

Learn often from the people you have the most access to. They will keep you accountable to one another.

5. Do our professional learning opportunities mirror the learning we want to create for our students? (Creating Meaningful Learning Experiences for Educators)

You recreate what you experience. Yet professional learning often stays the same, while we hope classrooms will change. What people get mixed up with here is that “lectures” are no longer valid, and I would disagree. A great lecture can really push my thinking, and inspire me when I need inspiration. But if that is the only way we learn when we our together (and we only learn together on days that are allocated), then we are not using our time in the best way possible.

Think of it this way…when you are with a group of educators, what you teach is as important as how you teach. I have made a concerted effort as of late to not only share ideas, but explain why I use the process that I do, and ask participants to reflect on how it can be used in their own classrooms. Making this explicit connection can have a significant impact on the learning of your entire community, which is the hope for all professional learning time.


 

These questions can make a significant difference upon inward reflections of leadership. One component that is crucial is that as a leader we learn to ask them continuously, not simply go through them once, and then move on. It is consistent effort at high quality that will lead to the success of any individual or group.



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Sunday, January 22, 2017

Why Successful People Are Open to Coaching




In an earlier post, I (David) shared 5 Blind Spots Educators Must Address. My friend Jennifer Hogan commented that one way to overcome blind spots is through coaching. That conversation led to the idea of writing this collaborative blog post.

There are lots of ways we can become more aware of our blind spots. Usually, it happens when we have some input (reading, discussing, observing, etc.) and then reflect on that information. But one type of input that is probably underutilized is coaching. We all need to be open to coaching.

Coaching is a good strategy for revealing blind spots while also building on strengths. How do we open ourselves up to embrace coaching as a way to grow both professionally and personally?

Blind spots represent gaps between what we think is true and what is really true, and uncovering blind spots is an important part of one’s personal and professional growth. Blind spots may be certain behaviors, traits, habits, or thoughts that are observable to others but not immediately evident to us. To reduce blind spots we must be open to acknowledging what the other person sees and be willing to reflect on different perspectives. When we recognize a blind spot exists, we can work on changing, reducing, or eliminating them.

We all have blind spots. There are things we do not immediately recognize in our own patterns and behaviors that are plainly evident to others. It’s almost always easier to see how others could improve than to see areas in ourselves that we might improve. For the most part, you know far less about yourself than you feel you do.

Here are a few ideas for developing an openness to coaching and receiving feedback.

Coaching involves building trusting relationships.

Unless there is trusting relationship, it is impossible to have an effective coaching relationship. We can’t act with good faith on feedback from a person we don’t fully trust. But if we sincerely believe a person wants the best for us, we should always openly consider the feedback they provide. Why would we ever be closed to someone who genuinely wants good things for us? It doesn’t mean we automatically have to agree with their perspective, but we need to listen carefully. This person has my best interest in mind. They want me to do well. Why wouldn’t I listen to their feedback?

Good coaching involves listening, not judging.

Feeling judged makes the defenses go up. But feeling heard creates safety. Listening is one of the best tools a coach can use. It’s not a situation where one person is the expert fixing someone else’s problem. Even if it might seem obvious someone has a blindspot, it is ultimately their responsibility to own that. In a coaching conversation, the goal is shared meaning and solutions that arrive as a result of both parties contributions to the discussion. Listening opens doors to new ways of thinking and makes room for others to reflect on their own thinking.

Accepting coaching means facing, and even embracing, failure.   
Most people see failure as a threat. We’ve learned failure is bad, and we want to avoid it. We want everyone to think we are successful all the time. But if we reframe failure, and think of it as an important part of how we learn, then we can translate our failures into even greater successes. Each time we fail, we can feel defeated and afraid. Or, we can look for the possibilities for growth in the situation. Some of our greatest opportunities are disguised as failures. Productive failure leads to personal and professional growth. We just need to see clearly. We need to overcome our blind spots.

Identifying blind spots requires seeking evidence that might be critical.

If we truly want to grow, we have to seek evidence of things we might be doing that aren’t working. Sometimes we might not want to look too carefully at something because we might find something we don’t like. But that type of thinking will always hinder our performance. John Hattie urges educators to “know thy impact.” Seek evidence to understand what’s working and what’s not. Hattie focuses on collecting evidence regarding one’s impact on student learning. Coaching can help us reflect on and process what we are doing and how it is impacting student learning. When we better understand what’s working and what’s not, we can focus our energies on highlighting the strengths and mitigating the weaknesses.

A coachable person views criticism with curiosity.

Curiosity leads to discovery and experimentation. A curious person will listen to criticism and feedback with an open mind and a willingness to continue learning. Curiosity is the engine that keeps us searching until we understand something or trying until we can do something. The inclination to explore new ideas, even ones that contradict current beliefs, help to close the gap between what we think is true and what is really true.

Asking for feedback makes it more powerful

Unwelcome feedback usually falls on deaf ears. Unless there is a high level of trust and a desire to hear a different perspective, it is usually a waste to offer feedback. We need to create a culture where it is normal and routine to have honest conversations about performance. Leaders need to model this. They need to ask for feedback too. When leaders demonstrate consistent comfort with examining their own areas for growth, others will feel more comfortable doing this too.

Effective coaching leads to positive change.

Learning is messy. As adults, we are in control of a lot of things. We decide what we’re having for dinner, how our classroom will run, where we will vacation, what time to leave the house, and so many more little and big decisions. Learning is messy. The process is never linear. Learning and trying something new goes against our habits of creating control in life situations. Especially when we know that we will be accountable for the learning and will get feedback throughout the messy process. But ultimately, coaching can lead to clarity, confidence, and growth.

What happens when we don’t open ourselves to receive coaching? I want to hear from you. Leave a comment below or respond on Facebook or Twitter.


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